This is how we slack during put boring practical lesson~~~~ yawn~~~
Then they bully me on the train, ask me TAKE ALL THE STUFFS!!!! Heavy eh~
Met up with dear after that then pei him go soccer awhile... That was a good night~~~
Friday
School again~~~~!!!!
Today, me and geoky wear the same dress~~~ So qiao..... Cheese
Had a bad quarrel with dear on fri night... i mean bad as in REAL BAD.... Haiz, kinda still tramatized by that night still, although we talked things out alr, but seems like it still happened over and over the same issue.... argh!!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
Saturday
Monday
Test my blood group today, i am A+!!!!!!!!!!! haha
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Ps: Had my gems lesson that day.. Teacher said something meaningful... In a relationship, both party MUST learn to JOIN VERBAL WITH NON-VERBAL!!!! Meaning, say things and say your feelings out, DON'T ASSUME the other party knows how u feel and what u thinks, coz NOBODY IN THIS WORLD have this ability (alright, maybe psychic).
Eg. You are unhappy with ur partner, then ur partner asked whether u are ok, and u give him/her a"attitude" face saying u are not cause u are afraid that he/she will be angry back at u for throwing temper. THIS IS WRONG!!!!! Say nicely to him/her WHY YOU ARE ANGRY/CRYING/SAD and let them know hoe you feels... and the other party MUST UNDERSTAND, if not TALK THINGS OUT!!!!!
Ps: I'm missing you... Sry for being so weak infront of you... I need u, i wanna keep on bothering you, but i know i can't and i shouldn't, so i'll try, i'll try to give you the space that u need.... You meant so much more, you meant beyond 100.
Temperament
Idealist
You are the quintessential dreamer - spending more time thinking about the possibilities that the world holds for you, rather than your reality. You don't settle for anything less than what you truly desire and you work very hard. You tend to live in every place except the present - you are prone to daydreaming about the future and re-thinking the choices you made in the past. Sometimes you get overly caught up in your thoughts.
Interests
Simple
You are continually pursuing a simpler and less complicated life - you don't allow yourself to fall victim to all of the "should do's" that society continually bombards you with. You are thoughtful about your life choices and think in terms of yourself, others and the world in which we live. You have a great sense that we are part of something much bigger and we must be good to others, if we want others and the world to be good to us.
Amusement
Adventurous
It's a good thing that you are filled with energy and ambitions (that others sometimes find exhausting) because you're continually looking for a new adventure and exciting experience. You struggle with a continual feeling of restlessness which constantly pushes you to the next level of excitement. Once you have accomplished one thing, you are eager to accomplish something more exciting, riskier and distinguishable.
Passion
Physical
You are a cuddle bug - from a warm hug shared with your best friend to steamy sex with your partner, you enjoy every bit of human contact that you can get. You demonstrate your love for others most fluidly through physical one-on-one contact and you feel the most loved when you are being touched. You feel disconnected when you are physically isolated from others. You're a people person and a lover of all things human.
Went town with pat to get my mum's phone from the service centre then went to bought my foundation.... And just now, the sony ericsson guy rang me up and say THEY GAVE ME THE WRONG PHONE!!!!!!!!!! The one with the right ID is with them..... lols.... they exchanging it back to me tml... haha... dumb dumb....
My flat undergoing construction now.....
Dots la, IT WAS JUST OUTSIDE MY WINDOWs!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So insecure lo, can even hear them talking..... NOT SAFE TO CHANGE IN MY ROOM LE LA!!!!!! shoo shoo, faster fix the damm lift~~~
Happy 27th month anniversary geok and seb!!!!!Really feel so envious of them.... Kinda feel sweetness in their relationship even though they had been tgt for so long....
Met up with dear jin to eat KFC, as usual, had lots of laughters... haha
That was an NG pic.... haha....
Today went out with ain and geoky to town!!!!
Peps, make an effort to read this entry.... It meaningful~~~
Listen for Love
For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I Love You." So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say 'Take Care' or 'Don't drive too fast' or 'Be Good.' But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I Love You,' 'You are important to me,' 'I care what happens to you,' 'I don't want you to get hurt.'
We are somethimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say. And yet, because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted. Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us.
Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show out love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express. The problem in listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. Thus, we have to force ourselves to really listen for love.
The problem with out world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realise.
How to be a better couple~
1. Be realistic about each other
Don't try to turn your partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys. There is only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world. Give your gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnight with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so you are gonna have to do with what your guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what you are. There is more to your partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out
Now guys, I know this is not your favourite pastime or mode of resolving issues, but you know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to express youself better so that your partner understands what you are angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When you stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve yourselves in some shared activities; something both of you enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or just strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccer with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts you to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if your gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If you are spending more time with your friends than your partner, it's a warning sign that you are drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The Rock" print, you shouldn't kick up much of a fuss. If he asks you to keep your room tidy. There's got to be a little giving and taking in a relationship. So learn to meet each other halfway.
5. Show your love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume every now and then. Even if you have been together for 5 years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that you care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear (like for decoration purposes). Buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him... so he knows you can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is you love to laugh at. Ask yourself if she thinks its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past
Stop bringing up the past. Gals... don't bring up the happy things about you and your ex to your guy. It would just make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that you had with your ex or mention about her in you every other sentence as it would make your gal feel unhappy and she might think that you are saying all this because you are going to get back with your ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit in your jealousy
All of us go through spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If you are going through your partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, you know something is wrong - with you!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads through the relationship before finally killing it. Trust your partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep your commitments to each other
If your partner is standing you up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, you need to talk! If you are in a relationship, make your partner your priority and don't disappoint them if you can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take you to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises you can't keep. If your partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to you, you may just lose him/her.
10. Be honest
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing your feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When you are hurt, say so, and when you are angry, tell him/her, without getting hysterical. If you can't be honest with your partner, who can you be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship when no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
Extracted from: http://francis247.blogspot.com/2007/11/listen-to-love.html
After-s
After that rushed down to town to meet up with my sisters for hx's bday....
Went arcade after that... haha... they are playing and they bully mi with the bags... haha.. jkjk
SUNDAY
I m so bored to drew this shit~~ haha... arghh
