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Status: Attached to Mr Ong ♥
Sch: Singapore Polytechnic
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Had kinda slack day today.... Went for my 1st gems class: Love relationships in Life~~~~~

ONE WORD to describe.... Interesting~~~~

Learned quite something today....

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.... We act differently and have diff views and aspects in life... THIS IS DEFINATELY!!!! CONFIRM CHOP!!!!

Womens tends to have a bigger middle brain which is prone to being EMO!!!!! This is NATURE!!! and Men having bigger front brain which is good at finding solutions, fixing and planning....

Example~
Women: (weep and nag and nag) Aiyo, today my boss keep scolding mi ah... saying this and tat!!! (COMPLAINTS)
Men: Then u should do this this this this! (SOLUTIONS)
Women: Haiz, this is not wat i wanna hear from u.....!!!
Men: Then wat... u complain to me den i help u find solution ma...
Women: I just want a listening ear and some comforting....
Men: U never say ma!!!!

The lecturer told the guys grp to write wat gals like and the girls grp are suppose to write wat guys like... Here are some ans.

What guys like:
1. SEX!
2. Gals with big Boobs
3. Gentle and understanding gals
4. Act Tough, act cool
5. Violence
6. Gals not in interfere in their privacy and buisness
7. MCP (da nan ren)
8. Pornography
9. Hot and sexy chics
10. ETCs.. too many to list

What gals like:
1. Gifts
2. Flowers
3. Care
4. Listening ear
5. Shining diamonds
6. 5Cs
7. Hinting and hinting and hinting and just wont get straight to the point
8. Cam-whoring
9. Horny and play with themselves( zzz, i dun understand y they think tat... lecturer says mens have high sex peaks at age 21+ while women at 40+)
10. ETCs.. too many to list

Trust is the most impt building blocks in all relationships.... and the guys is our class thinks tat SEX is the most inpt ingredient in a relationship... Our teacher did not say wrong but rather agree with it.... As SEX is the red light indicator when a relationships go wrong but trust btw partners are still the most impt thing...

Other impt factors are influence in cultures (how we are depends quite alot on how we are being brought up). and mani mani more.... Just saying everyone behaves and react differently..... No guy is perfect for any gals and no gal is perfect for any guys because there are just too many 'wants' from the opposite sex which we are somehow not capable of doing it.

Cool eh.... lolz... The class was just fun la.. i guess i'll learn alot of things from this class... Not just love relations but also families and frends and ppl ard....

Meeting sisters ltr... back to upload soon!


WARNING~~~ This is gonna be a veri long entry!!!!

Had a heart breaking nite due to some heart breaking words... Shattered~~

Morning~~~ Going School



Had a long break between lessons... so went to library to watch InitialD~ First time so mani ppl watched tgt.. haha..

Evening~~~After School

Dearest Ain accompany mi to Creative to fix my baby mp3!!!! had it fixed in 15mins... fast hor.... den got a free webcam from there... haha...

Night~~~

Going for a "CAR COMPEITION" as stated from my mum.... and i thought its a racing car competition... But when we reach, we then realised its a compeition for decoration of the car!!! DOTS

Before going out... This pic look like gng take ang bao during chinese new yr.. haha






Happy lunar festival!!!!












Working on thursday... Stupid day..... Bad day!!!! lolz... the customers are so FKED UP!!!!! wonder y is there such ppl in the world.... grrr




Seriously nth to blog.... lolz... tml start sch le!!!!! yippy and sad~~~



Quoted from geok's blog~~~ Kinda interesting

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'
The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong.'

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.


CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.


NO OVERPOWERING

****Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.' It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.

RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.' Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.


PERSONAL PERCEPTION

You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..


BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?' The father went home & committed suicide.

Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

~Copyright from geoky's blog~

Labels: Things in life~

Went work with pat again!!!!! lolz.... Nothing much to do tat day... pat keep getting pranks calls... haha..

Hey! Gorgeous producers called ask mi dwn for audition this fri but i rejected... zzz... still gt audition de.. lolz... Dun like ppl to judge mi lidat, ltr they say i too ugly cannot make it den i'll feel so sad... better not to face the truth... lolz...





Alright... Blogging at the office is wrong!! i know!!!

My eyes had been twitching from ytd afternoon till NOW!!!! even pat can see my eyelid move!!!! dots... And we went to find out why....

What causes eye twitches?

Ang Moh Saying:
It is believed that muscle spasms in the eyelid causes eye twitches. Because of this, it is believed that it is related to the nervous system.

Most think that these muscle twitches can be related to emotional stress or physical eye strain. For example, staring at the computer all day can cause it to twitch. Technically speaking, eye twitching is called blepharospasm.

There are more severe forms of eye twitching that can even lead to blindness.

If your eye itself starts twitching, there could be a more serious underlying problem. You could have a condition called nystagmus. This is caused by a defect in the eye's motor system.

There are really only two symptoms of this condition. Twitching around the eye is one and the while the other is full facial twitching. (whole face moving???) zzz

Chinese Saying:

Bad things gonna happen!!! (short and sweet)
OH NO~~~
end~~


Kinda bad day...
I dunoo why... Kinda no mood....
Stupid dumb customers!!
Dear come find mi after work... Went mos burger eat... den go home le!!!






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Tears drip all the way home.. Why am i so EMOtional!!!! WHY WHY WHY!!!! WHY cant i be like some other girls who can deal with it easily.....

"Men are from mars and women are from venus seems true.. In relationships, both sexes often continue to puzzle and frustrate each other with their vastly different ways of thinking." (quoted)

I just purely want a "its ok" or "go slp now".... Not being shouted by u... i've tried to comfort myself, but i cant seem to do it.... Others can leave it aside and wait for tml den settle, WHY CANT I??? U sld noe mi well, i cant leave things till next day.... I've alr apologise, guess u think its no use at all le.... I promise to this day, i'll swipe away my tears myself.... U may think i dun appreciate what u did, i do.... and i've planned to thank u after we part but guess i dun have the chance... So i'll say my thanks here.... A million thanks for taking good care of mi, really really felt nice... Thanks..



Went work with pat at his bf's company.. woke up at 6am, took 2 hrs journey.. stand on train for 1.5hrs...

The rest of the day dun ask more.... nothing to say.... oni 2 words, fked up!





Pasted 2000 stickers.... The end~~